Homeless Guy on "What causes homelessness?" / "Why don't they go home?" / "Who pays to fix it?" [2024-04-13]
Posted: Tue Apr 16, 2024 5:41 pm
Description
Do homeless people really move to the city for the drugs and have families to go back to? The bus ticket home is a popular solution. But what if they're homeless because they don't have a home to go back to? And who pays for this bus ticket? Tax payers? Past employers? Relatives? Which relatives?
What if I told you that 90% of homeless people are fatherless? That 76% are not mentally ill or drug addicted? You'd find ways to argue, no doubt.
In my view the absent or missing father should pay something like adult child support to their homeless adult children.
Video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSUYtztulsY
Transcript
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Hey, hey, and welcome to the I Spooge Daily Channel.
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This is an experimental tech and media brand.
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Later we're doing 20 minute daily videos.
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One take no fake, unscripted.
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A lot of times don't even know the topic.
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Maybe an idea or two.
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Today's idea is who's fault is homelessness.
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What's the first thing you think of when you think of homelessness?
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Not that I read your emails or have comments enabled.
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But you can think about that.
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You might say, oh, it's drug addicts, mentally ill people.
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Maybe the odd run away.
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Whose family misses them and cares so much,
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and wishes they'd come home.
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Right?
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Yeah, easy story.
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Maybe, you know, there's a couple of people down on their luck, blah, blah, blah.
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But if you like me, you know,
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you've come to see that that is just the furthest thing from the truth.
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Okay, first fact about homelessness.
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Well, let's take a detour.
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What's something you know about CEOs?
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This could be much more interesting,
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but people often know that 90% of CEOs are six feet tall plus.
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Why might that be?
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You can think of enough reasons.
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I don't have an exact answer, but that's an accepted statistic.
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Okay, most people can believe 90% of CEOs,
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Fortune 500 CEOs are over six feet tall.
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And they can come up with some reasons that may be good or not.
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So what if I told you that?
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Well, let's even take another detour.
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What if I told you that 76% of homeless people
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are not mentally ill or addicted to a substance?
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That number comes from invisible people project.
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Okay.
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So, most people would probably not believe that.
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You know, even I gave a source preemptively,
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but everyone will just believe that 90% of CEOs are over six feet number.
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Without even qualifying necessarily Fortune 500,
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it's probably not the same for under non Fortune 500.
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But anyway, we're on a detour.
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Okay.
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So, a lot of homeless people are not drug addicted or mentally ill.
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Probably a lot more than you would have imagined,
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the majority of them.
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Okay.
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And you're going to sit here and try to fight with me on these numbers,
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right?
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Your little hamsters running, you're like,
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how are those numbers wrong?
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Oh, it's a trick because you use the word or.
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There are all one or the other.
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Maybe the mental ill and drug addicted,
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you know, that's the catch right there.
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So, okay, you can believe that.
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That's fine.
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What if I told you another number that 90% of homeless people
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are fatherless?
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You might consider that number.
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So, what does that have to do?
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Because all the rappers talk about,
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you know, doing it themselves,
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all the boomers talk about pulling themselves up from the bootstrap, right?
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Why can't the homeless people just do it too?
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That was similar to my attitude in 2014 when I moved to San Francisco
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and I was stepping over people on the street thinking.
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When I was a teenager, I was 14 years old.
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I taught myself how to code.
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I was getting freelance gigs at 15 years old,
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making more money than my dad,
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dropped out of high school,
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so I was making more money than my parents.
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You know, why can't they just do it too?
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If I could do it,
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so I just felt no guilt.
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You know, I felt no responsibility for these people.
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Like it wasn't on me to give them money to feed them.
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I did it as a teenager.
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So then I became homeless in 2018 after a dispute
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with management at a big company
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and their legal team and everything.
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That was later,
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but this dispute was ongoing until legal got involved anyway.
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So 90% of homeless people are fatherless.
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75% of homeless people are not drug addicted or mentally ill.
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So who's fault is homelessness?
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Is it really the individuals?
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Is it just the economy?
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I put responsibility solely on the father,
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the missing absent fathers.
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I don't think anyone's going to jump in and say,
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well, what about the mothers?
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Right, maybe I'm wrong there.
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Really a balanced person needs both mother and father in their life.
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But the father provides leadership to the household,
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the rock of the household,
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the non-emotional parents.
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Everyone will argue,
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there's emotional man,
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yes, the super-feminine man,
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our emotional indeed.
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So absent father,
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weak father,
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what his father less mean,
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is a hyper-feminine male in the household,
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an absent father.
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We can scrutinize that.
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But I'm going into this topic because of solutions.
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So now,
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if 90% of homeless people have absent fathers
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or weak fathers or missing fathers,
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you know,
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no male role model,
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no masculine,
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healthy masculine role model,
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with a balance of feminine as well.
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Everyone has masculine and feminine in them.
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But if 90% of homeless people are fatherless,
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then that seems like the place to start looking.
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And importantly, okay,
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so let's look in another direction.
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So the number one thing we want homeless people to do
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is reunify with their families,
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go home,
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give them a bus ticket home.
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And then we might think about these people as individually rebellious.
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And, you know,
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that's where the whole drug addict thing comes in,
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mentally ill thing.
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They're just too mentally ill to go home.
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Oh, they just love the drugs too much
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to go somewhere where they can't use the drugs.
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Open, you know,
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open air drug market, whatever.
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They need to go to the big city,
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San Francisco,
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to get access to the cheap drugs and the welfare, right?
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Well, let's just get them a bus ticket home.
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Well, okay.
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The number one reason people do drugs
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is they feel isolated already.
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So,
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I talked about real versus open homelessness
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and do people really go to the big city
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as to be drug tourists?
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Probably not.
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They probably go there because,
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well, there's zero opportunity
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and,
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like, third-rung agriculture,
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I'm in, like, a second-rung satellite
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three hours outside of San Francisco,
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I came here.
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San Francisco,
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there's so much opportunity.
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Here, there's a decent amount of opportunity.
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The town I worked in 30 miles away
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until February,
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effectively zero opportunity.
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I applied to all the grocery stores
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in the area,
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and that was the one that called me back.
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Way out there.
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So, maybe they just wanted some fresh talent
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from outside.
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Whatever the case may be,
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I got a job,
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way rural.
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Basically, where I want to be,
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living rural.
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But to get another job,
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I couldn't count on getting a job in that same place.
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So, I once again had to do a wide search
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and I ended up
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in a downtown of a smaller town.
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I don't want to say the number under 100,000 for sure.
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So,
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people go to big cities looking for opportunity,
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looking for this, looking for that.
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I can't deny,
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yeah, there's probably some drug tourists,
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but it's not the vast majority of homeless people
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who are not addicts or mentally ill.
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It's going to be people looking for opportunity.
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And then,
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so let's go another direction,
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and hopefully I can pick up the tangent that I was going to pick up.
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So,
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I'm losing the threads.
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Okay, so,
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isolated people turn to drugs.
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People go to bigger cities for opportunity.
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And we want to send them home.
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Well, I don't think they have opportunity
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where they came from.
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Could it be that,
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who's more lost here, right?
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So, I didn't grow up rural. I grew up in a city,
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so I don't know a lot about rural life,
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but I do know that being homeless rural is way harder than being homeless in a city.
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And I've not been a drug addict,
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so,
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I can't really speak to that either.
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But one thing I have learned,
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so I never,
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I always tried to talk up my parents
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to be a good child's my parents,
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this and that.
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But when I became homeless,
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due to the dispute with management
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and then,
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like reference check processes,
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and blah, blah,
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you know,
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basically,
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I couldn't work in my chosen field anymore,
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big tech.
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I was,
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you know,
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at that point,
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one would think that I'm isolated
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and need to cope from all the crap in my life
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and crap is a worse word than I usually say,
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so apologies.
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But...
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So, send them home.
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Now, if they're already leaving
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from a home with domestic violence,
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people say,
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oh, there must be a relative.
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This is where like narcissistic abuse
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and the whole scapegoat and black sheep
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and flying monkeys and an abler
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and all this stuff come into the picture.
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Like, you've got to be familiar with narcissistic abuse
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and how those abusive family systems work
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to follow here.
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But...
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there are people who are better off
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not with their relatives.
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Now, relatives are blood related.
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Family is spirit.
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And Jesus himself said,
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I'm here to separate families.
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Because,
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well, he says that he gives examples
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of like father from son blah blah blah.
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Family is spirit.
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So, your soul family would be chosen.
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Your relatives would be who you're born into.
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And you need to be separated from them
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if they're cut from a different cloth
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if they're not of the same spirit,
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basically got to the devil,
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creation or parasite.
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So...
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So 90% of homeless people are fatherless.
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And I just feel people watching this
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and like feeling like I'm trying to hamster together
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a little argument to be like,
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ha, see, see, see,
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something that will benefit me
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personally, something like that.
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Now, I'm really just
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letting out the high level broad strokes
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of who pays for homelessness.
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that child unadult child
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is still a thing relative to the parent.
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but not always adult children
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of alcoholics.
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Adult children of missing fathers.
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and all this in that?
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the homeless industrial complex.
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and end up just kind of lining their pockets,
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their friends pockets, et cetera.
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not long 90 days.
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and, you know.
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I need, I'm a different cloth than my dad.
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superior, blah, blah, blah.
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He's a child of the devil.
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I'm a child of the Holy Father.
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is just going to get confusion.
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cheat, steal, kill, destroy.
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which side are people most likely going to end up on
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without fearing retaliation.
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who might choose my side, for example.
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I have nowhere to go back to.
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I tried, and it did not work out.
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I had no hard ill feelings towards my dad before.
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I understand so much, so much about narcissism
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and narcissistic abuse.
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the cane and able archetypes and narcissistic abuse
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and whatnot.
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I'm sitting here bleeding,
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trying my best to get any kind of employment.
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I'm a vegan working in a kitchen with meat.
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There's not a lot of choices.
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I'm doing my best.
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I have to beg sometimes.
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I have to busks sometimes.
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and I'm not sitting here saying I deserve anything.
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is poor people really do believe in kicking their kids
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out at 18 years old and having them do it themselves
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because they did it themselves and it toughens you
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and it builds character and blah, blah, blah.
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then what should say if US legal is based on biblical law,
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then who should pay for homeless people?
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It should be these missing fathers, right?
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but there really should be something like adult child support.
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they would write away for making me homeless.
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and I'd go and say it's something that me and 90%
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of homeless people have in common is absent fathers.
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would be the last employer, the last gainful employer,
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the best would be the parent, the worst would be the government.
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So who is responsible for homelessness?
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It's not the individual.
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It is the father in the majority of cases.
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job to provide a better life for their descendants.
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So thanks for joining and I'm looking forward to seeing you next time.
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Take care.
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Do homeless people really move to the city for the drugs and have families to go back to? The bus ticket home is a popular solution. But what if they're homeless because they don't have a home to go back to? And who pays for this bus ticket? Tax payers? Past employers? Relatives? Which relatives?
What if I told you that 90% of homeless people are fatherless? That 76% are not mentally ill or drug addicted? You'd find ways to argue, no doubt.
In my view the absent or missing father should pay something like adult child support to their homeless adult children.
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Hey, hey, and welcome to the I Spooge Daily Channel.
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This is an experimental tech and media brand.
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Later we're doing 20 minute daily videos.
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Today's idea is who's fault is homelessness.
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What's the first thing you think of when you think of homelessness?
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Not that I read your emails or have comments enabled.
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But you can think about that.
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You might say, oh, it's drug addicts, mentally ill people.
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Maybe the odd run away.
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Whose family misses them and cares so much,
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and wishes they'd come home.
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Right?
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Yeah, easy story.
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Maybe, you know, there's a couple of people down on their luck, blah, blah, blah.
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But if you like me, you know,
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you've come to see that that is just the furthest thing from the truth.
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Okay, first fact about homelessness.
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Well, let's take a detour.
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What's something you know about CEOs?
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This could be much more interesting,
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but people often know that 90% of CEOs are six feet tall plus.
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Why might that be?
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You can think of enough reasons.
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I don't have an exact answer, but that's an accepted statistic.
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Okay, most people can believe 90% of CEOs,
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Fortune 500 CEOs are over six feet tall.
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And they can come up with some reasons that may be good or not.
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So what if I told you that?
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Well, let's even take another detour.
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What if I told you that 76% of homeless people
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are not mentally ill or addicted to a substance?
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That number comes from invisible people project.
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So, most people would probably not believe that.
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but everyone will just believe that 90% of CEOs are over six feet number.
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it's probably not the same for under non Fortune 500.
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So, a lot of homeless people are not drug addicted or mentally ill.
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Probably a lot more than you would have imagined,
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the majority of them.
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And you're going to sit here and try to fight with me on these numbers,
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right?
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Your little hamsters running, you're like,
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how are those numbers wrong?
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Oh, it's a trick because you use the word or.
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There are all one or the other.
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you know, that's the catch right there.
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So, okay, you can believe that.
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That's fine.
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What if I told you another number that 90% of homeless people
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are fatherless?
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You might consider that number.
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So, what does that have to do?
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you know, doing it themselves,
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all the boomers talk about pulling themselves up from the bootstrap, right?
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Why can't the homeless people just do it too?
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and I was stepping over people on the street thinking.
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When I was a teenager, I was 14 years old.
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I taught myself how to code.
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I was getting freelance gigs at 15 years old,
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making more money than my dad,
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dropped out of high school,
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so I was making more money than my parents.
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so I just felt no guilt.
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I did it as a teenager.
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with management at a big company
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and their legal team and everything.
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but this dispute was ongoing until legal got involved anyway.
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75% of homeless people are not drug addicted or mentally ill.
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Is it really the individuals?
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Is it just the economy?
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I put responsibility solely on the father,
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the missing absent fathers.
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I don't think anyone's going to jump in and say,
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well, what about the mothers?
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the rock of the household,
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the non-emotional parents.
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there's emotional man,
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yes, the super-feminine man,
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our emotional indeed.
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weak father,
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what his father less mean,
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is a hyper-feminine male in the household,
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an absent father.
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We can scrutinize that.
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if 90% of homeless people have absent fathers
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or weak fathers or missing fathers,
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you know,
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no male role model,
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no masculine,
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healthy masculine role model,
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with a balance of feminine as well.
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Everyone has masculine and feminine in them.
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then that seems like the place to start looking.
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so let's look in another direction.
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So the number one thing we want homeless people to do
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is reunify with their families,
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go home,
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give them a bus ticket home.
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that's where the whole drug addict thing comes in,
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mentally ill thing.
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They're just too mentally ill to go home.
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to go somewhere where they can't use the drugs.
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Open, you know,
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open air drug market, whatever.
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San Francisco,
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to get access to the cheap drugs and the welfare, right?
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Well, let's just get them a bus ticket home.
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is they feel isolated already.
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and do people really go to the big city
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as to be drug tourists?
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well, there's zero opportunity
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like, third-rung agriculture,
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I'm in, like, a second-rung satellite
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three hours outside of San Francisco,
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San Francisco,
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there's so much opportunity.
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Here, there's a decent amount of opportunity.
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The town I worked in 30 miles away
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until February,
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effectively zero opportunity.
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I applied to all the grocery stores
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in the area,
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and that was the one that called me back.
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Way out there.
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from outside.
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Whatever the case may be,
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I got a job,
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way rural.
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Basically, where I want to be,
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living rural.
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But to get another job,
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I couldn't count on getting a job in that same place.
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and I ended up
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in a downtown of a smaller town.
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I don't want to say the number under 100,000 for sure.
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people go to big cities looking for opportunity,
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looking for this, looking for that.
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I can't deny,
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yeah, there's probably some drug tourists,
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but it's not the vast majority of homeless people
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who are not addicts or mentally ill.
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so let's go another direction,
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and hopefully I can pick up the tangent that I was going to pick up.
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So,
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I'm losing the threads.
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isolated people turn to drugs.
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And we want to send them home.
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Well, I don't think they have opportunity
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where they came from.
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Could it be that,
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who's more lost here, right?
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so I don't know a lot about rural life,
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but I do know that being homeless rural is way harder than being homeless in a city.
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so,
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so I never,
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to be a good child's my parents,
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this and that.
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due to the dispute with management
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and then,
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like reference check processes,
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and blah, blah,
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you know,
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basically,
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big tech.
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I was,
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one would think that I'm isolated
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and need to cope from all the crap in my life
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and crap is a worse word than I usually say,
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so apologies.
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and the whole scapegoat and black sheep
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and flying monkeys and an abler
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and all this stuff come into the picture.
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and how those abusive family systems work
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to follow here.
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there are people who are better off
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not with their relatives.
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of like father from son blah blah blah.
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Your relatives would be who you're born into.
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And you need to be separated from them
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if they're cut from a different cloth
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if they're not of the same spirit,
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basically got to the devil,
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creation or parasite.
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And I just feel people watching this
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and like feeling like I'm trying to hamster together
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a little argument to be like,
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ha, see, see, see,
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something that will benefit me
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personally, something like that.
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letting out the high level broad strokes
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of who pays for homelessness.
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Well, okay, let's try
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alamony like arrangements.
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Child support, adult child support.
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There's support groups,
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adult children of alcoholics.
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Adult children are a thing.
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a tree has children.
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You know, it can have grandchildren, et cetera, et cetera.
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It's not the age.
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We think of child as,
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you know, child adult child parent.
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that child unadult child
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is still a thing relative to the parent.
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You know what I mean?
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So like kid, that's like young goat.
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Is what we think of.
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Sometimes when we think of child,
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but not always adult children
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of alcoholics.
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Adult children of missing fathers.
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Something like that, right?
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So should the taxpayers pay for homeless shelters
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and all this in that?
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That don't really work or do anything.
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And there's a whole term called
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the homeless industrial complex.
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And you know, the way non-profits form
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and end up just kind of lining their pockets,
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their friends pockets, et cetera.
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I've been in a homeless shelter
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not long 90 days.
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You gotta leave after that.
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And I've been physically assaulted by my dad.
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And other relatives are basically flying monkeys
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and, you know.
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They can't be fence-setters
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because I'm not of the same spirit as my dad.
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I need, I'm a different cloth than my dad.
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It's not saying I'm better,
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superior, blah, blah, blah.
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He's a child of the devil.
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I'm a child of the Holy Father.
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And anyone else who tries to be connected to both of us
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is just going to get confusion.
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And if one of us is willing to lie,
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cheat, steal, kill, destroy.
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And one isn't, well,
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which side are people most likely going to end up on
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without fearing retaliation.
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There's nothing I can do to protect or provide for relatives
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who might choose my side, for example.
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So it's a solo journey for me.
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I have nowhere to go back to.
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I tried, and it did not work out.
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I had no hard ill feelings towards my dad before.
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But after staying with him,
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I understand so much, so much about narcissism
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and narcissistic abuse.
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And I did some videos when I first got there about like
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the cane and able archetypes and narcissistic abuse
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and whatnot.
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But basically what I'm suggesting is like,
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I'm sitting here bleeding,
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trying my best to get any kind of employment.
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I'm a vegan working in a kitchen with meat.
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There's not a lot of choices.
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Like, it's a hard road.
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And I'm not crying or complaining.
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I'm doing my best.
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I have to beg sometimes.
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I have to busks sometimes.
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But, you know, really,
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and I'm not sitting here saying I deserve anything.
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But if you, so the final point we're getting to the 20 minute mark
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is poor people really do believe in kicking their kids
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out at 18 years old and having them do it themselves
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because they did it themselves and it toughens you
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and it builds character and blah, blah, blah.
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But wealthy people believe in generational wealth.
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It's biblical to pass on to your children and grandchildren.
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And if the US laws based on biblical principles and blah,
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then what should say if US legal is based on biblical law,
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then who should pay for homeless people?
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It should be these missing fathers, right?
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Now I can't imagine that ever coming to fruition in my lifetime
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but there really should be something like adult child support.
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Because I mean, the next best thing would be employer.
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So if I were to go after one of my employers,
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they would write away for making me homeless.
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They would write away deflect and make it a family.
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It would be me personally issue but I would need,
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and I'd go and say it's something that me and 90%
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of homeless people have in common is absent fathers.
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So the second best choice of who pays for homelessness
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would be the last employer, the last gainful employer,
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the best would be the parent, the worst would be the government.
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So who is responsible for homelessness?
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It's not the individual.
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It is the father in the majority of cases.
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There can be exceptions but it is the ancestors
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job to provide a better life for their descendants.
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So thanks for joining and I'm looking forward to seeing you next time.
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Take care.
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